Hundreds of Thousands of Kids Live with Loved Ones who suffer from Alzheimer’s Disease

What do these children know about the disease and how did they find out?

How to talk with kids about Alzheimer’s Disease depends first on the age of the child. For preschoolers and elementary school students, the discussions must be as simple as possible to foster an understanding that prevents confusion and hurt feelings. For teenagers in middle and high school, educators and parents must reassure this group that they or their parents will not necessarily suffer Alzheimer’s because a grandparent or other loved one suffers.

How to Talk with Kids About Alzheimer’s Disease

There is nothing predictable about Alzheimer’s. Without at least a general understanding of the disease, children’s feelings and self-esteem can be hurt. Children may feel as if they have done something wrong if their loved one cannot remember them or is agitated. The positive power of knowledge during all stages of the disease, makes a world of difference in the lives of developing children and teenagers.

Discuss the Disease. The most apparent symptom is memory loss. Teach the children to be understanding, loving, and respectful. Teach them that the loved one who suffers is still the same person. In some families, a group discussion which includes the patient is highly beneficial. Learn about the disease together.

K.I.S.S. (Keep it So Simple). Children do not necessarily need a great amount of detail about the disease. If they are interested, they can do some research on their own, which may be a good coping mechanism for some teenagers.

Reassure. Alzheimer’s is not contagious and the loved one is still the same loved one. The only difference is that the loved one suffers symptoms.

Hearing from Peers. The Alzheimer’s Association offers videos, books, and other literature which can help in educating children and families about the disease. Hearing from other children who live with loved ones suffering from the disease can be extremely helpful.

Regardless of age, all children must be reminded to engage in normal activities with their loved one. All kids must be reminded that their loved one is still their loved one, a person who deserves love and respect throughout the symptoms of the disease.